Hustle culture often glorifies nonstop work—but the cost of that mindset can be far greater than we realise.
Imagine pouring all your energy into growing your business, only to find yourself missing out on life’s most precious moments. It feels like an endless tug-of-war between career ambitions and spending time with your loved ones. But you can take a different path—and it doesn’t include sacrificing family for success. 🌈
Let me share a story…
I began my entrepreneurial path with a vision that endless work hours were the key to building a brighter future. But with time, I realised that my endless grind was costing me memories I could never get back. I share how I reframed my priorities, shifting from a work-centred life to a more balanced one that cherishes what truly matters. ✨
🎙 In this episode of the Systemize Your Success podcast, I walk you through my intentional choices to reshape my goals—making space for both family and personal well-being without compromising on business growth.
Here’s why you should tune in:
- 📌 How redefining your success timeline can bring more fulfilment.
- 👨👩👦 The impact of being present and building meaningful family bonds.
- ⏳ Tips to manage your time effectively between work and family life.
Join me as I challenge the conventional mindset that glorifies hustle at the expense of family, and encourage you to rethink your priorities for a more balanced and rewarding life.
KEY TAKEAWAYS: Breaking Free from the Hustle Culture Mindset
- Reevaluating Success: It’s important to redefine what success means, especially for entrepreneurs with families. Instead of striving for rapid growth and financial milestones, focus on creating a balance that allows for quality time with loved ones.
- The Impact of Time on Relationships: The early years with children are crucial for building strong bonds. Neglecting family time for work can lead to long-term relationship issues, as children may not remember the sacrifices made but will feel the emotional impact.
- Mindset Shift: Transitioning from a work-centric mindset to one that values family and personal fulfilment can be challenging. It requires a conscious effort to find joy and satisfaction outside of professional achievements.
- Influencer Responsibility: Influencers and coaches should be mindful of the advice they give, particularly regarding family sacrifices. Encouraging a work-first mentality can have detrimental effects on family dynamics and children’s perceptions of business ownership.
- Balancing Priorities: Managing a business and raising children simultaneously is demanding. Entrepreneurs must make compromises and recognise that they cannot operate at the same pace as those without family obligations, ensuring they allocate time and energy effectively to both areas.

BEST MOMENTS: Creating a Balanced Business Without Embracing Hustle Culture
00:50 – 💬 “We need to get away from this point of growth for the sake of growth and scaling for the sake of scaling. We’ve got to actually start living today and enjoying the life we have, not the life we may get in the future.”
09:57 – 💬 “I just redefined the timeline for success. I work hard enough to be able to generate money to support my family, but I’m no longer striving to be a multimillionaire by the end of the year.”
11:25 – 💬 “I’m not just a business owner anymore. I’m a business owner, a dad, a husband, and a friend. And all of those things are super important.”
13:19 – 💬 “Make sure you’ve got the time and energy to do both well enough so you don’t regret it later in life.”
TIMESTAMPED OVERVIEW
00:00 Reevaluating Success: Balance Over Sacrifice
04:10 Rethinking Business Priorities
08:08 Early Bonding Beats Later Involvement
11:50 Inspire Kids with Love Now
LINKS TO CONNECT WITH THE HOST
- Podcast: https://www.systemizeyoursuccess.com
- Website: https://systemsandoutsourcing.com/
- Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/systemsandoutsourcing/
- LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/systemsandoutsourcing/
- Instagram: https://instagram.com/systems_and_outsourcing/
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/@drsteveday42
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drsteveday42
ABOUT THE HOST
Steve used to be a slave to his business, but moving to Sweden in 2015 forced him to change how he worked. He switched to running his businesses remotely. After totally nailing this concept, he spent his time helping other small business owners do the same. Steve has been investing in property since 2002, has a degree in computing, and worked as a doctor in the NHS before quitting to focus full-time on sharing his systems and outsourcing methodology with the world. He now lives in Sweden and runs his UK-based businesses remotely with the help of his team of Filipino and UK-based Virtual Assistants.
Most business owners feel overwhelmed because they don’t know how to create systems or get the right help.
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